When the girl is considered to be of "marriageable age", then starts the drama! If she has managed to find somebody for herself, then ofcourse she has done a BIIIIG CRIME! How shameless she is to find someone for herself.. In this century, familes and relatives still have problems if the person their son/daughter want as their life partner is of another caste! How does it matter at the end of the day? These "supposed to be relatives" anyways are not going to be there for that person when these people are in trouble. A marriage is between two people and yes ofcourse, the family is very important.. But if the family is still in some age old century and don't want to accept a person only because that person is of some other caste, then I think thats very very ridiculous! Ofcourse the religious rituals will vary, but is that the priority? I have been seeing so many of my good friends in this mess.. And I really don't know how the people who you have given birth to you, taken care of you and loved you for so many years, suddenly forget everything coz you decided to do something what you want to do.. Religion is important but more than that I feel belief in God is most important. At times, some people really do make the wrong choices, I truly believe that if a person has made a wrong choice, sooner or later they will surely realise.. And anways its their choice, so why not let them take their decision and let them learn the hard way if that's their way of handling life..
And even worse, I hear stories of people who were in love with someone and then got married to a third person and then got back to the first one! This is even more madness.. God has given people brains and I don't know why they don't use it? When they really loved somebody so much, then they need to know which is more important for them.
I have soooo many of my friends who are going through this.. I really pray for all of them.. At the end of the day, its the destiny that takes over............
4 comments:
U seem to be surrounded by people who only talk of getting u married or getting themselves married.. Give yourself a Break...
U can step in to mine.. the next stage.. everybody around me are getting pregnant and others who are not are behind my life to get pregnant.
I always ask them please make one and grow them up and lend them to me after that.
LOL!! I think i am happy with mine! :D
Well.. even i am one among the people who r behind your life for it.. :P
Its just not destiny.. Its their weakness of not standing up and raise the voice. But when they do either the family gets convinced or a chain of family emotional drama starts. Sad but true.
The Caste Factor is never gonna die even after 100 years. People take pride in adding suffixes to their names. When people stop to name their children without suffixes and when schools start to have applications without "Caste" field ...then is the time this "Caste" factor is gonna die and ppl can marry anyone in the mankind ( ;-) it includes women). Hope the day comes sooon.
Anywaz, ur thots were worth the 3 mins that i have spent in reading and 6 mins that i have spent in writing. Good Going.
Post a Comment